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WHO AM I?

TRAUMA & MINDSET COACH, EDUCATOR, SPEAKER, PODCAST HOST, PURPOSE DRIVEN BUSINESS OWNER &
I WAS ONCE YOU....

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Hey I’m Candice

If you have been drawn to my work, it is likely you have an anxious attachment style.

And great news, you’re in the right place because I am known for taking clients from anxious to secure attachment style with healthy relationships

What you need to know about me is, that I have LITERALLY been you. That is why my content feels like I am in your head!

 

*STORY TIME*

I score 10/10 on the childhood trauma aces test, which means I experienced all forms of trauma & abuse ongoing by the age of 7

 

and I had severe abandonment & rejection wounds from my caregivers

 

I was very anxiously attached but I didn’t know it.

I had incredibly LOW SELF-WORTH

A vey HARSH INNER CRITIC

An OUTRAGEOUSLY OVERTHINKING mind

& incredibly UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS with myself & others

Which led me to get married at the age of 24

 

I thought someone had finally come to save me from my trauma, as they showed me the love I was desperately missing.

Only this turned into a toxic relationship that mirrored a lot of my childhood, only my abandonment wound wouldn’t allow me to leave, no matter how toxic it was.

I just clung on trying to fix & save it.

Again, I had no idea what this was back then.

Eventually it did end.

After some time being single, I entered into another relationship with an avoidant attachment style.

An avoidant attachment style is another insecure attachment style that has the opposite needs to an anxious attachment style, so they end up triggering each other.

Which creates a very painful push pull dynamic.

My abandonment wound was constantly triggered & I was highly anxious the entire time, experiencing all the symptoms I speak about in my content and that you are experiencing.

But again, I couldn’t leave.

In fact I worked very hard to make it work instead… to avoid being abandoned.

It was exhausting.

Meanwhile, completely abandoning myself.

 

I had no idea at the time that I had an anxious attachment style or what it even was.

Hence why I do what I do now as most of you are in the same position I was.

When that relationship ended, I began my self-discovery journey of recognising I had an anxious attachment style, it all made sense finally.

I wasn’t crazy, hooray! Although I sure did feel it.

I worked on healing my abandonment/rejection wound from childhood & learning to become a secure attachment style, which I now am.

I have healthy relationships with others but most importantly with myself.

But it wasn’t an easy journey. There wasn’t anyone like me showing me the way, which is why I do what I do as lord knows it is painful.

 

I wish I had known about it alot sooner so that I could have taken the action to overcome IT, as I can see now, my anxious attachment style sabotaged my relationships over & over again.

So I am on a mission to help you and as many people as possible not to make the same painful mistakes.

I have been honoured to work with hundreds of clients since I started this business a few years ago & my content has touched thousands.

Nothing fills me with more joy than seeing my clients get insane results & hearing the impact my content has.

It was all worth it.

 

To hear more about my story, listen to this episode on the F*CK TRAUMA PODCAST
 

How I can help you on your journey?

First Step: 

Watch my FREE MASTERCLASS:

 

STOP SABOTAGING RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANXIETY 

 

Second Step:

 

Listen to the F*CK TRAUMA PODCAST

I have been blessed to have many clients share their experience on there so that you can see what is possible for you. I am told constantly by my community how much it helps to hear others are experiencing the same thing.

 

I assure you, you are not alone.

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What I would say to little me?

My inner child is called Candy, When I was a child everyone called me that but as I got older, I banned them.

 

What I would say to her & I do, is that she is remarkably strong to have not only survived her trauma but thrived, using it to drive her to become what she is today, helping so many others.

 

I would tell her she is enough & always was, that it wasn’t her fault or responsibility to save anyone. That she is loved unconditionally & I will never abandon her again.

What would you say to little you?

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What I would say to YOU..

I have always felt strongly that my message for this world is that you can overcome anything, i believe that’s why i experienced so much trauma to show others what’s possible.

 

It’s not easy to do the work & it’s not fair that you have to, but I promise... what you are experiencing is a trauma response & you can overcome it. and you must, because you deserve the absolute best in this lifetime.

 

I don’t want you to spend another second in pain, crying another tear in frustration or speaking another unkind word to yourself.

 

You are enough right now, perfect infact.. and i honestly want you to see that for yourself.

 

Send me a message if you can relate to my story, I love hearing from you.

 

With love always

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Candice x

What I would say to You...

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