CANDICE TAMARA
SO..
WHO AM I?
COACH, EDUCATOR, SPEAKER, PODCAST HOST, FOUNDER, MASTER MANIFESTOER, WIFE, MUM AND...
I WAS ONCE YOU.
A FEW YEARS AGO, IF YOU'D TOLD ME I'D BE HAPPILY MARRIED, PREGNANT WITH MY FIRST DAUGHTER AND HELPING THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE CREATE THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIPS THEY USED TO BEG, CHASE AND ABANDON THEMSELVES FOR...
I’d have laughed in your face. 😂
Seriously.
Not in a cute “I can’t believe it” way.
In a “there’s absolutely no chance that’s happening to me” way.
Back then my love life was a complete sh*t show!
I was anxious AF.
I didn’t know my worth.
I never felt chosen.
If overthinking burned calories, I'd have been a Victoria's Secret model. 😂
I’d already survived a childhood full of abuse, alcoholism and abandonment.
I’d been through a toxic marriage.
Then I spent four years in an avoidant, push-pull relationship trying to convince one man just to live with me.
FOUR YEARS.
Read that again.
AFTER THAT CAME MORE HEARTBREAK.
Different man.
Different circumstance.
Different excuse.
Same ending.
People pulled away.
Ghosted.
“Weren’t ready.”
Too busy.
Too scared.
Chose somebody else.
Or found another reason why they couldn’t choose me.
I genuinely believed they were the problem.
I thought I was just a magnet for emotionally unavailable men.
But something never sat right with me.
It couldn’t all be coincidence.
I’d already spent years helping people heal anxious attachment and create healthier relationships.
BUT WHEN I DISCOVERED THE LAW OF ASSUMPTION, EVERYTHING CLICKED.
I realized it wasn’t just our behaviors creating our relationships.
It was the beliefs & assumptions we carried into them.
I realised something that completely changed my life.
Every relationship I’d ever had had one thing in common.
ME.
And honestly...
It was like someone had finally switched the light on.
Every relationship I’d ever had flashed before my eyes.
For the first time, it all made sense.
They were reflecting me.
They were reflecting what I believed to be true about myself.
Looking back...
After the childhood I’d had...
Was it really surprising what I believed about love?
I didn’t believe I was chosen.
I believed people leave.
I believed love isn’t safe.
I believed I had to earn love.
I believed if I gave enough...
Surely someone would finally choose me.
They never did.
Suddenly I could see it.
Different man.
Same beliefs.
Same ending.
The problem had never been who I was dating.
It was the assumptions I carried into every relationship.
And if my assumptions had created the pattern...
Changing the pattern was never about changing them.
Lord knows I tried for YEARS!!!
IT WAS ABOUT CHANGING ME.
That’s exactly what I did.
I stopped trying to change them and started changing me.
I rewired my self-concept.
I changed the beliefs that had been creating the same relationship patterns over and over again.
I learned to regulate my nervous system instead of letting fear run my relationships.
And I realised manifestation wasn't about endlessly repeating techniques...
It was about becoming the version of me for whom secure love felt normal.
From that point on, I started deliberately applying everything I was learning.
I manifested relationships better than I had ever experienced.
I manifested people back.
I manifested completely different outcomes.
All my relationships did a 180.
But the biggest manifestation of all wasn’t a specific person.
It was becoming someone who was no longer waiting to be chosen…
I was now doing the choosing.
Everything changed after that.
Today I’m married to the man I intentionally manifested.
He bought my engagement ring within three months. No convincing required this time. 😏
Proposed after seven.
We got married on a beach in LA.
We’re expecting our first daughter.
AND OVER THE LAST FIVE YEARS I'VE SUPPORTED THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE TO CREATE RELATIONSHIPS THEY ONCE THOUGHT WERE IMPOSSIBLE.
Some have manifested an ex or SP back after months, even years, of no contact.
Some have completely transformed the relationship they were already in.
Some realised they wanted something different and manifested a brand-new relationship instead.
Some are now engaged.
Some are married.
Some have children they used to cry themselves to sleep dreaming about.
And no matter how their story unfolded... every single one of them ended up becoming more secure, more confident and happier within themselves too.
If you’ve found your way here...
I have a feeling you’re here for a reason.
I hope my story reminds you of one thing.
Nothing changes until you do.
And that’s the best news I could ever give you.
Because it means your power has been with you all along.
Love
Candice
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SO, ARE YOU READY TO CREATE THE RELATIONSHIPS YOU ACTUALLY WANT?
Your next step...
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MORE ABOUT ME...
I’m an only child from London
And yes, I still live here.
I’m a Sagittarius
December baby, full of fire, freedom, and zero patience for surface-level chat.
My favourite drink?
A English Breakfast tea. Milk in first, always. I know, I know... it's a sin but honestly tastes way better... try it and thank me later!
Mantra I’m living by right now:
The world & our relationships are a mirror to our internal world. Change it and the world has no choice but to reflect it.
I’m a cat person forever.
My cat Bleu was catnapped from Greece whilst on holiday. Best decision ever!
My guilty pleasure?
Reality TV. Don’t judge me. Or do. I’ll still be watching The Kardashians.
My inner child's name:
Candy! That was my name growing up!
Healing tools I swear by:
My Secure Method EFT tapping, inner child work, breathwork, journaling, and self-concept reprogramming. These tools didn’t just help me heal - they rebuilt me.