CANDICE TAMARA
Shift from anxious, overthinking & chasing… to secure, grounded & fully chosen in love.
Do you spiral the moment someone pulls away?
You’re not “too much.”
You’re not “crazy.”
You’re dysregulated.
And until you heal the root… the cycle will repeat.
This is for you if:
> You obsessively check your phone - heart racing the second they take too long to reply
> You replay every message, every conversation, searching for what you did wrong
> You keep giving, fixing, pleasing, explaining - yet somehow still feel like an afterthought
> You know they’re breadcrumbing or avoidant… but walking away feels impossible
> You’ve read the books. Done the journaling. Maybe even therapy. Listened to all the podcasts…
…and nothing actually changes how anxious you feel in relationships
You’re not broken.
You’re just stuck in survival mode—calling it love.
The truth?
This isn’t about them.
It’s about your nervous system.
You were wired to chase love.
To equate anxiety with connection.
To lose yourself in the hope of being chosen.
And no amount of logic, “playing it cool,” or texting rules can override that wiring.
Just Imagine...
✨ Feeling secure - without needing constant reassurance
✨ Being able to breathe when someone pulls away - instead of spiralling
✨ Walking away from breadcrumbs, knowing you're the whole damn loaf
✨ Attracting partners who pursue you, value you, and make you feel safe
✨ No longer performing for love - but actually receiving it
That’s not a fantasy.
That’s the version of you waiting on the other side of this work.
And it starts here.
What You’ll Experience Inside:
> The S.E.C.U.R.E™ 3-Step Method
The exact process to shift from anxious, triggered, and chasing…
to grounded, secure, and effortlessly magnetic in love.
> Inner Child Healing Activation
Meet the younger you who’s still chasing love—and finally give them the safety, voice, and validation they never had.
> Secure You™ Tapping Method
Release anxiety from your body. Regulate your nervous system and feel safe being seen, wanted, and chosen.
> The 5 Chasing Love Self-Concept Archetypes
Uncover which one you are—and why this pattern has kept you stuck, even if you’ve done all the inner work before. You’ll also be guided through a short journaling reflection to gain deep clarity on what’s next.
> The Shift Into the Chosen One
Move from survival mode to secure love.
You’ll meet the version of you who is already chosen—and start embodying them today. Expect to walk away feeling regulated, empowered, and ready to take action from your secure self.
> Bonus: Private Invitation to Go Deeper
At the end, you’ll receive a limited-time offer to join Anxious to Secure in Love—
my signature program that will change your life forever.
This isn’t another fluffy freebie.
It’s the method that’s changed many lives.
A mirror to the patterns keeping you stuck.
A map to the love you actually want.
And the moment everything starts to shift.
Ready to get one step closer to your secure happy ever after?