CANDICE TAMARA
The proven step-by-step method that stops anxious attachment sabotaging your relationships, so you finally experience the secure, consistent love you've always wanted.
Want to stop living in fear of someone pulling away and finally become secure in love?
This is for you.
Want to reconnect with someone you've lost?
This is for you.
Want to transform your current relationship into something secure, consistent & committed?
This is for you.
Want to attract a healthy, secure relationship without repeating the same painful patterns?
This is for you.
*BONUS inCLUDED*
Create Your Secure Relationship™ programme (normally £888)
I know you...
If someone looked at your life from the outside, they'd probably think you've got your sh*t together.
You've built a career.
You've got amazing friends.
You're the one everyone comes to for advice.
You're funny.
Independent.
Self-aware.
Until you meet someone you genuinely like.
Someone you can actually see a future with.
You let your guard down.
You wake up smiling because they've already sent you a good morning text.
You catch yourself wondering what you'll do together next weekend.
You actually let yourself get excited.
And then...
Without even realising it...
Your whole world slowly starts revolving around them.
One morning...
You wake up.
No good morning text.
You tell yourself they're probably just busy.
They've probably had an early meeting.
They're probably driving.
But somehow...
It sits with you all day.
Then they take a little longer to reply than normal.
They only put one kiss instead of two.
Their messages feel just... different.
Nothing huge.
Nothing anyone else would probably even notice.
But you notice.
You open WhatsApp.
Close it.
Five minutes later...
You open it again.
You post an Instagram story...
Then find yourself checking whether they've watched it.
You're making dinner...
Thinking about them.
You're trying to concentrate in a work meeting...
Thinking about them.
Your friend is telling you all about her engagement...
And somehow you're still wondering why he only put one kiss instead of two.
You know you're overthinking.
You know people get busy.
You know one slower reply doesn't automatically mean they're pulling away.
But your mind goes there anyway.
You tell yourself you're doing really well because you haven't messaged them.
Because you're not chasing anymore.
But if you're really honest…
You've re-read your messages hundreds of times, trying to work out the exact moment everything changed.
You've checked when they were last online.
You've imagined what you'll say if they end things.
Then...
They stop replying the way they used to.
The effort starts to fade.
You ask if everything's okay.
They say they've just got a lot going on.
Everything's fine.
But you know something's changed.
You can feel it.
You just can't explain it.
A few weeks later you get the text…
"I've really enjoyed getting to know you, but I'm just not ready for a relationship."
Or they don't actually end it.
They just slowly disappear.
Again.
You replay everything.
Wondering if you were too much.
Wondering if you pushed them away.
You tell yourself next time you won't get attached so quickly.
But somehow...
The same story keeps playing out.
Different person.
Same ending.
And even after they've gone...
A part of you is still hoping they'll come back.
Still wondering if they'll realise what they lost.
Still hoping one day your phone will light up with their name.
Or maybe you're already in a relationship.
One that feels like one minute you're so close...
And the next, they're pulling away again.
You replay conversations over and over, trying to work out if there was a better way you could have said it.
"If I say it the right way this time, maybe something will finally change."
You spend hours talking it through with your friends.
Sending screenshots of your texts.
"Do you think I should text them?"
"What do you think they meant by this?"
You Google "How to stop an avoidant pulling away."
Then "Do avoidants come back?"
Then you're watching another YouTube video, hoping this one finally has the answer to make them stop pulling away.
You tell yourself to give them space, let them miss you.
Then spend the whole time wondering if they're coming back.
You stop bringing things up because you don't want another argument.
Until eventually you can't hold it in anymore...
And you're back having the same conversation you've already had ten times before.
And nothing changes.
You don't feel like a priority.
You don't feel secure.
You start questioning whether your needs are actually too much.
Whether you're expecting too much.
Whether maybe this is just what relationships are like.
At this point, you've got your own theories.
They're avoidant.
You always attract emotionally unavailable people.
You care too much.
You get attached too quickly.
Healthy, consistent relationships seem to happen for everyone else...
Just not you.
But this isn’t what is really happening.
IMAGINE THIS...
You're out having dinner with your friends.
Someone asks, "So... how's your love life?"
You smile.
Because this time...
You don't have a story to tell.
No mixed signals.
No wondering where you stand.
No trying to work out what they meant.
Instead...
You tell them about the weekend you spent together.
The holiday you've just booked.
The way they surprised you with your favourite coffee that morning.
The way they reached for your hand as you walked down the street.
The little moments you used to dream about...
You don't wake up wondering if today's the day everything changes.
You wake up to a good morning text... without wondering if today's the day it stops.
You don't have to wonder if they're interested.
They make it obvious.
You don't spend hours talking your relationship through with your friends anymore.
Because there isn't anything to decode.
When something bothers you...
You say it.
They listen.
You both move forward together.
No walking on eggshells.
No wondering if you've ruined everything.
No spending three days worrying that bringing up your needs pushed them away.
You know exactly where you stand.
You feel loved.
You feel secure.
You never have to question it.
You finally have the relationship you used to dream about.
The one where someone shows up.
Communicates.
Follows through.
Makes plans.
Keeps their word.
Chooses you every single day.
And the craziest part?
It all feels completely normal now.
The consistency.
The effort.
The communication.
The security.
The little things that used to mean everything...
Have simply become your normal.
WHAT CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY...
WHY YOU'RE not here yet...
Here's what every anxious attachment coach gets wrong.
They teach you how to manage your anxiety.
They teach you how to regulate your nervous system.
They teach you how to communicate better.
And yes, all of those things matter.
But they're missing the biggest piece.
Your anxious attachment isn't just affecting how you feel.
It's creating the relationships you're experiencing.
The moment someone really matters to you...
The fear of losing them takes over.
You stop enjoying the relationship...
And start trying not to lose it.
You start looking for signs they're pulling away.
Reading into messages.
Needing reassurance.
Trying to stop the relationship from falling apart before it actually has.
Without even realising it...
You're expecting it to END.
You may never consciously say,
"They're going to leave me."
But you're checking for it.
Preparing for it.
Reacting as though it's already happening.
The Law of Assumption is simple.
What you consistently assume to be true... becomes what you experience.
And that's why the person you're terrified of losing...
Ends up pulling away.
So yes...
They did become inconsistent.
They did ghost you.
They did say they weren't ready.
But that wasn't where the story started.
Your fear had already been creating that outcome long before you could see it. Subconsciously.
That's why the same thing keeps happening.
Different person.
Same ending.
You heartbroken wondering what went wrong.
And this is the best news I could possibly give you...
Because once you change the anxious beliefs and assumptions creating the pattern...
The relationship outcome changes too.
The person who ghosted you can become the person who comes back ready to choose you and build the relationship they couldn't before.
The person who keeps saying they are not ready can become the person planning a future with you.
The anxious-avoidant push-pull can become secure, consistent and committed.
Or you can finally experience a healthy, secure relationship with someone new who consistently chooses you, communicates with you and shows up for you.
This is why Anxious to Secure in Love™ is different.
It does not only teach you how to feel less anxious.
It teaches you how to stop your anxious attachment from creating the same relationship outcome...
And consciously create the relationship you actually want instead.
THIS IS MINE & MY CLIENTS REALITY.
INTRODUcing anxious to secure in love...
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The proven step-by-step method that stops anxious attachment sabotaging your relationships, so you finally experience the secure, consistent love you've always wanted.
This isn't another anxious attachment programme.
And it isn't another manifestation programme.
It's the first programme that shows you how your anxious attachment has been creating the relationship outcomes you keep experiencing...
and exactly how to change them.
Because after years of coaching thousands of people, I realised something...
You don't just need to understand anxious attachment.
You don't just need to understand manifestation.
You need to understand how they work together.
Because that's what's been creating your relationships all along.
Everything changes when you realise your anxious attachment hasn't just been affecting how you feel...
It's been creating the relationships you've been experiencing.
And once you change those subconscious patterns...
Your relationships change too.
That's exactly what my SECURE Method™ was designed to do.
PHASE ONE: BECOME SECURE
Before you can create a secure relationship...
You have to become the secure version of you.
This is where we stop the anxious patterns that have been sabotaging your relationships for years.
The overthinking.
The spiralling.
The fear of abandonment.
The people pleasing.
The constant feeling that love could disappear at any moment.
You'll change the subconscious beliefs, nervous system responses and survival patterns that have been creating the same relationship outcome over and over again.
PHASE TWO: BUILD SECURE RELATIONSHIPS
Now that you've stopped living in survival mode...
It's time to learn how secure relationships actually work.
You'll discover what you truly need from a relationship...
How to communicate those needs confidently...
How to set boundaries without guilt...
How to stop losing yourself every time someone matters to you.
Because you can know exactly what a secure person would do...
But if you're still terrified they're going to leave...
You'll never show up like one.
PHASE THREE: CREATE YOUR SECURE RELATIONSHIP™
Once you've become secure...
It's time to create the relationship you actually came here for.
This is where everything you've changed within yourself gets applied to the relationship outcome you want.
Whether you want to reconnect with someone from your past...
Transform the dynamic in your current relationship...
Or attract a healthy, secure relationship with someone new...
That's where Create Your Secure Relationship™ comes in.
Because you didn't come here just to understand yourself better.
You came here to finally experience the relationship you've wanted for years.
That's exactly what this programme was built to help you create.
HOW I KNOW THIS METHOD WORKS...
WHAT DOES THE SECURE METHOD COVER?
The reason I created this programme is because I was you.
I was far from the woman who felt secure in relationships.
I was ANXIOUS AF!
I didn't know my worth or see my value at all.
I never felt chosen, no matter how much I gave.
I was the person analysing every text.
The person terrified of someone pulling away.
The person trying to figure out what I could do, say or be so that someone would finally choose me.
When I was younger, I was married.
I thought someone had come along to save me. I was desperate for love, and the relationship was incredibly toxic.
It reflected my self-concept from a traumatic childhood where love wasn't safe for me.
It reflected what I believed love was supposed to be.
Then I found myself in a relationship that was full of avoidance, push-pull dynamics and anxiety.
I spent FOUR YEARS trying to convince someone just to live with me.
FOUR YEARS.
And it never happened.
Then came years of the same cycle with different people.
Connections that started off amazing.
Then...
People pulling away.
Ghosting.
Being "not ready".
Choosing someone else.
Or finding another reason why they couldn't choose me.
No matter who it was, the outcome was always the same.
Me, heartbroken, desperately holding onto what could have been and wanting them back.
Looking back now, I can see that every relationship was reflecting the same beliefs, fears and patterns back to me.
Then I discovered this work.
Like most of us, I came to the law of assumption because I desperately wanted the person that ghosted me back....
At first I was completely focused on them.
Needing them to come back & choose me.
I watched every manifestation video.
Affirmed for hours.
Did every YouTube technique that promised they'd be at my front door the next day.
But nothing changed.
Then I started to understand the Law of Assumption differently.
If everyone is a reflection of me...
Why was I so focused on them?
And even if they did come back, what then?
Looking at my dating history, it was obvious something needed to change. It was a sh*t show!
I didn't want another relationship that ended the same way.
I wanted more for myself.
So I stopped focusing on changing them and started changing me.
I rewired my self-concept.
I regulated my nervous system.
I changed the beliefs that had been creating the same relationship patterns over and over again.
And I learned how manifestation actually works.
Not as a technique you had to constantly do.
As an identity shift that would create real long term change.
Everything changed.
And yes... they came back.
But by that point something had shifted.
For the first time in my life, I wasn't desperately waiting for someone to choose me.
I was the one doing the choosing.
Trust me when I say this place is powerful.
Some people get to this place and choose their original SP, just a different version of them.
Others, like me, discover they want something different.
The point is that you're no longer making decisions from fear, lack and desperation.
For the first time, I got to choose what I actually wanted.
And what I wanted was the relationship I used to dream about.
The one I had visualized for years.
But never truly believed could be mine.
A family of my own.
A man to build a life with.
A man who adored me.
Chose me daily.
And committed to me freely.
So that's what I manifested.
I manifested my dream man.
My now husband bought the ring after just three months together with no convincing at all.
Proposed after seven months.
And now we're married and expecting our first baby together. A little girl.
I feel deeply chosen every day in my relationship.
But the biggest transformation wasn't the relationship.
It was becoming the version of me who naturally feels secure in herself.
No longer controlled by fear.
No longer terrified of losing love.
Able to finally receive the love she gives so freely to others.
A woman who expects to be chosen.
Supported.
Respected.
Cherished.
And that's exactly what I teach inside this programme.
PHASE ONE: BECOME SECURE
This is where you become secure in you.
You'll understand where your anxious attachment began, heal the subconscious patterns driving it, regulate your nervous system and build the emotional safety you've been looking for outside of yourself.
MODULE 1 – CLARITY
→ You get clear on where you are, what you actually want in love, and how fear has been shaping your choices without you realising it.
MODULE 2 – CONNECTION
→ Reconnect with your true self (not your trauma identity). Clarify who you are, your values, and what you actually need from love.
MODULE 3 – COMPASSION
→ You begin healing the root of anxious attachment through inner child work and nervous-system safety
Anxiety stops feeling like something to fight or fix and starts dissolving as your system learns safety.
MODULE 4 – ACCEPTANCE
→ Let go of the old stories you’ve been carrying (“I’m too much,” “They always leave”) and start validating yourself with compassion
YOUR PATH TO SECURE LOVE...
PHASE TWO: BUILD SECURE RELATIONSHIPS
It's time to learn how secure relationships actually work.
You'll discover what you need in a relationship, communicate it confidently, set healthy boundaries and stop losing yourself every time someone matters to you.
MODULE 5 – YOUR NEEDS (Part 1)
→ You uncover your core needs without guilt or self-judgement.
You build the internal capacity to meet yourself emotionally so you’re no longer sourcing safety solely from others.
MODULE 6 – YOUR NEEDS (Part 2)
→ You learn how to identify what you need from others and communicate it clearly - whether you’re dating or already in a relationship.
MODULE 7 – TRIGGERS
→ Your nervous system is retrained so triggers no longer hijack your behaviour.
Through nervous-system-based work and EFT-style approaches, emotional reactions soften at the root — instead of being managed in the moment.
MODULE 8 – BOUNDARIES
→ Learn to set boundaries without spiralling into guilt, fear, or anxiety.
You stop losing yourself to stay connected - because self-trust is now stronger than the fear of being left.
MODULE 9 – COMMUNICATION
→ Learn how to express your feelings, needs, and boundaries without emotional spirals or long-winded texts that never land. Communication becomes clean, grounded, and effective.
MODULE 10 – CELEBRATING YOU
→ Lock in your growth, reflect on your secure identity, and prepare to step into your next chapter in love from full alignment.
PHASE THREE: CREATE YOUR SECURE RELATIONSHIP
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The 8 week method that transforms your relationships - past, present, and future - by transforming you.
Now we take everything you've become...And apply it to the relationship you actually want.
Whether you want to:
✔ attract a new secure relationship with an emotionally available partner
✔ reconnect with someone you love without repeating the past, or
✔ finally shift the dynamic in your current relationship to more mutual, committed or secure without chasing
You can choose your pathway depending on where you are currently & what you're relationship outcome is.
This programme is NOT a quick fix.
This programme changes YOU at the DEEPEST layers.
WHAT YOU RECEIVE INSIDE ANXIOUS TO SECURE IN LOVE™
This isn't a programme you simply watch and then wonder how to apply.
It isn't another course that fills your head with more information while you stay anxious AF & your relationships stay exactly the same.
Because let's be honest...
You already know you shouldn't overthink.
You know you shouldn't spiral every time someone takes longer to reply.
You know you shouldn't abandon yourself to keep someone else.
You know you shouldn't keep choosing emotionally unavailable people.
You know you shouldn't keep replaying the same conversations over and over again.
Yet you still find yourself doing it.
Why?
Because understanding anxious attachment isn't what changes it.
Changing the subconscious patterns creating it does.
That's why the Secure Method™ works differently.
Instead of teaching you how to manage anxious attachment...
It changes the anxious patterns that have been creating your relationships all along.
So you don't just understand why you do what you do.
You become someone who no longer does it.
What you'll receive:
✔ Complete Secure Method™ Framework
A step-by-step roadmap with workbook that takes you from anxious attachment to secure love, so you always know exactly what to do next and never feel overwhelmed.
✔ Subconscious Reprogramming Tools
Powerful exercises designed to change the beliefs, assumptions and stories that have been creating your relationship experiences on autopilot so that you can create new experiences you actually want.
✔ Secure Method™ EFT Tapping
Specific guided Secure Method EFT tapping sessions designed to remove the emotional charge from old wounds, neutralise triggers and rewire the subconscious patterns that have been creating the same relationship experiences over and over again.
So you stop reacting from fear, abandonment and self-doubt and start feeling safe receiving the relationship you actually want without sabotaging it.
✔ Inner Child Healing
Heal the root of anxious attachment by changing the wounds that taught you love wasn't safe, so you stop recreating those patterns in your adult relationships.
✔ Nervous System Rewiring
Train your nervous system to finally feel safe in love.
So you're no longer constantly scanning for signs they're pulling away, preparing for the worst or living in survival mode every time someone matters to you.
✔ Needs, Boundaries & Communication Frameworks
Learn exactly what you need in relationships...
How to communicate those needs confidently...
Set healthy boundaries...
Express yourself without long emotional spirals...
And use my communication scripts to handle difficult conversations calmly and effectively.
✔ Trigger Transformation Process
Learn why you're triggered...
Then use subconscious work and EFT to change the trigger itself, so it stops controlling your thoughts, emotions and behaviour.
Not managing it.
Changing it.
> The Complete Create Your Secure Relationship™ Programme
✔ Break the Chasing Patterns at the Root
A complete process designed to help you stop recreating the fixing, pleasing, performing, overthinking and self-abandoning patterns that keep showing up in your relationships.
Not through willpower.
By changing the subconscious patterns driving them.
✔ Chosen Self-Concept Rewiring
Step-by-step exercises and tools that rebuild the way you see yourself so you naturally feel more chosen, secure, worthy and confident in love.
No more putting others on a pedestal.
No more looking outside of yourself for validation.
✔ Three Relationship Pathways
Apply everything you've learned directly to your own relationship outcome.
• Reconnecting with someone from your past.
• Transforming your current relationship.
• Attracting someone completely new.
So you'll always know exactly how to apply the work to your own situation.
You’ll also get….
✔ Manifestation Teachings That Actually Create Change
Clear lessons on the Law of Assumption woven throughout the entire programme, so you understand exactly how your anxious attachment has been creating your relationship outcomes...
And how to consciously create different ones instead.
✔ BONUS: Live group coaching call REPLAY with Candice (worth £297)
Watch me coach real relationship situations in real time and see exactly how this work is applied.
✔ Lifetime Access
Return to the programme whenever you need it and continue using the tools as your life and relationships evolve.
“I was broken before I started working with Candice. Her method changed my life—and I credit her with my relationship with Jeff.
She was the best investment I ever made in myself. This love wouldn’t exist without her.”
- ARCHANA
This Programme Is NOT For You If...
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You want another book, podcast or course to consume without actually changing anything.
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You want a quick way to stop feeling anxious today, but you aren't ready to look at the beliefs and patterns creating it.
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You want to keep blaming avoidants, emotionally unavailable people or everyone you've dated without being willing to look at what you have been bringing into the relationship too.
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You want someone else to change while you continue showing up in exactly the same way.
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You aren't willing to apply the tools, repeat the work and give yourself the time to genuinely change.
THIS PROGRAMME IS FOR YOU IF...
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You know your anxiety has been sabotaging relationships with people you genuinely wanted.
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You're ready to stop analysing the pattern and finally change it.
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You're ready to take responsibility for what you have been creating without making yourself wrong for it.
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You're committed to doing the work, applying the tools & trusting the process.
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You want to know how to communicate your needs, set boundaries and handle triggers without losing yourself or pushing someone away.
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You want real transformation, not temporary relfief.
If you've read this far, you already know something has to change.
Because you have tried understanding it.
You have tried giving them space.
You have tried saying it differently.
You have tried promising yourself you will be less anxious next time.
And yet...
Here you are.
Still experiencing the same fear.
The same push-pull.
The same heartbreak.
So you have a choice.
You can keep trying to manage the anxiety while hoping your relationships somehow become different...
Or
You can finally change what has been creating the pattern in the first place.
One choice gives you more of what you already know.
The other gives you the chance to experience something completely different.
The secure, consistent relationship you came here for.
Deep down, you already know which one you're here for.
YOUR INVESTMENT IN YOU...
This is the complete Anxious to Secure in Love programme - including Create Your Secure Relationship™
Your investment includes:
✔ Lifetime access to the full Anxious to Secure in Love programme
✔ The complete SECURE Method™ framework
✔ Subconscious and nervous-system-based tools (including EFT, inner child work, and subliminal support)
✔ A comprehensive workbook for integration and embodiment
✔ Instant access to all modules - move at your own pace and revisit whenever needed
✔ BONUS: Access to Create Your Secure Relationship™ - (normally £888 when offered separately)
✔ BONUS: Replay of a live group coaching call with Candice (worth £297)
You’ll also get access to a replay of a live group coaching call where I worked through real relationship situations and showed exactly how to apply this work in real time.
£1555
(approx $2000)
(exact conversion may vary slightly)
Payment plans available:
3 x £533pm | 6 x £273pm | 12 x £140pm
HEAR WHAT MAYA HAD TO SAY A YEAR AFTER COMPLETING THE PROGRAM
