CANDICE TAMARA
CREATE HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS WITH LESS ANXIETY BY LEARNING HOW TO NAVIGATE THE ANXIOUS + AVOIDANT TRAP
What is the anxious & avoidant trap?
The anxious & avoidant trap is when two attachment styles, the anxious & avoidant get together.
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These are two insecure attachment styles that are highly attracted to each other but struggle to meet each others needs.
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This creates a push/pull dynamic in the relationship where both parties are triggering each other.
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These relationships often develop to be toxic, addictive & hard to walk away from if you don't know how to navigate them.
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signs you are or have been in it>
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The relationship is a rollercoaster of emotions, push/pull cycle of closeness & then space where you are anxious
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Mentally & emotionally you don't feel they are connected to you as you are to them, sometimes they feel close but other times more distant.
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You argue a lot about small things that turn into big arguments, you tend to argue about the same things without much changing and you don't feel heard & understood.
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You feel blamed a lot in the relationship.
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It's hard to walk away, you feel too connected (addicted) to them.
say goodbye to this painful push/pull cycle
Hey, i'm candice
A Trauma & mindset coach, dedicated to guiding you to having healthy relationships with yourself & others.
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I specialise in attachment trauma, anxious attachment style in particular.
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Why? because I was anxiously attached too.
I had a deep fear of abandonment from childhood & even though I knew I had experienced a lot of trauma as a child, I had no idea about attachment styles.
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It's wild how little information & support is out there on them, you could be in therapy for years & they wouldn't even mention them. Yet, they are literally the exact reason we struggle to have healthy relationships with ourselves & others.
For years, I stayed in toxic relationships, clinging hold of them because I now know, my abandonment wound was so triggered. I sabotaged relationships too with my anxiety. Honestly, I thought I was crazy!!
I too was in the anxious & avoidant trap & boy oh boy, was it painful! I had no idea what attachment styles even were back then & I WISH I had the knowledge I have now on the subject as it would have changed everything!!
So this is EXACTLY what I will teach you in this masterclass!
here's the tea...
the anxious & avoidant trap masterclass
​What we will cover & so much more:
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Learn about the anxious and avoidant attachment styles & their needs
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Learn all about the anxious & avoidant trap (AKA the push pull cycle)​
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Learn how to navigate the trap if you’re currently in it so that you are less anxious & can create a healthy dynamic where you both get your needs met
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Learn how to navigate a break up from the Anxious + Avoidant trap
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Learn what to look for in dating (13 early warning signs to look out for) so that you can avoid getting into the trap & attract secure partners
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PLUS you will get access to the recording of the LIVE Q&A where incredible souls like you asked their burning questions which shaped a very interesting conversation you need to hear!
