CANDICE TAMARA
Transform your past, present & future relationships from the inside out within
8 weeks
Want to reconnect with a past connection? this is for you.
Want to improve your current connection? this is for you.
Want to attract a new secure relationship? this is for you.
I KNOW YOU....
You’re self-aware - painfully self-aware - and that’s exactly why this part hurts so much.
You’ve done the inner work, the journaling, the therapy, the podcasts, the “aha” moments…
But your reactions in real relationships still haven’t changed in the moments that matter.
You can SEE your patterns as they’re happening
The panic that spikes in your chest,
The overthinking that spirals out of nowhere,
The shutting down when you feel vulnerable…
But you still don’t know how to choose differently when your emotions take over.
You’ve had moments of feeling powerful, chosen, self-assured
Moments where you think, “I’ve finally cracked it…”
But the second your feelings get involved,
You slip back into old behaviours you thought you’d healed.
And if you’re honest?
You’re exhausted from attracting the same dynamic in different people...Intensity that turns into inconsistency, chemistry that turns into confusion, potential that turns into Emotional burnout.
No matter who it is, it eventually becomes the same loop… and you’re tired of reliving it.
You want a secure relationship - not just secure moments.
But you don’t know how to build one without losing yourself...
Without chasing reassurance,
Without settling for crumbs,
Without collapsing into someone else’s energy.
You’re done relying on TikToks, journaling, and podcasts to hold you together.
You want structure.
You want a method.
You want tools that actually change you in the moment...not after the spiral, not after the overthinking, not after the damage is done.
You’re ready to stop surviving your patterns
And finally rewire them - deeply, permanently, at the root.
You don’t want to be “aware” anymore.
You want to become the version of you who naturally attracts clarity, consistency, commitment, and a partner who chooses you fully.
And yes…
You’re scared of slipping backwards into old dynamics.
And you want support becoming the person who never has to experience those patterns again.
Because you can feel them...
A secure, grounded, powerful, chosen version of you is trying to emerge.
And you’re ready for the program that finally turns that version into your actual reality.
Whether your heart is with someone from the past and you’re terrified of recreating the dynamic that pushed them away…
Whether you want a new secure relationship but don’t fully trust yourself to stay secure when you really like someone…
Or whether you want your current relationship to finally feel safe, stable, intimate, and emotionally connected instead of looping through the same painful arguments…
You are ready for the work that doesn’t just make you aware of your patterns - it makes you someone who never returns to them.
IMAGINE THIS...
Imagine waking up and not immediately checking your phone... Not scanning for messages. Not bracing for disappointment.
Your body feels settled. You feel grounded inside yourself - before anyone else does anything.
Imagine someone pulling back slightly… and instead of panicking, overthinking, or trying to fix it, you stay calm...
You don’t chase. You don’t collapse. You don’t abandon yourself.
Because you no longer assume that distance means loss.
Imagine meeting someone secure and actually enjoying it...Without analysing every message or wondering where you stand.
The connection builds naturally because you’re not trying to manage it or prove yourself.
Imagine your current Connection shifting...More effort. More consistency. More emotional presence and commitment
Not because you asked for it, but because the dynamic itself changes when you stop relating from fear and start relating from certainty.
OR imagine a past connection re-entering your life...Not to repeat the same painful pattern, but to form something entirely different.
A reconnection that feels grounded, mutual, and secure - because the version of you they’re meeting now is not the one they left.
You’re no longer waiting to be chosen.
You’re no longer afraid of losing love.
You don’t need reassurance to feel safe.
You trust yourself.
And from that place, clarity, consistency, and commitment stop feeling like something you hope for…and start feeling normal.
WHY YOU'RE not here yet...
Let me explain what’s actually happening...
simply, clearly, and honestly.
You’re not stuck because you don’t understand yourself.
And you’re not stuck because you haven’t done enough work.
You’re stuck because your subconscious expectations haven’t changed yet..
And your body is faithfully responding to them.
Your conscious mind knows better now.
You can see your patterns.
You can name your fears.
You can spot the moment you’re about to spiral.
But when something matters to you....
When attachment is activated,
When there’s uncertainty,
When love feels vulnerable
Your subconscious assumptions take over.
And your nervous system responds to what it expects to be true. That’s the key.
Your body isn’t reacting to what’s happening in the moment.
It’s reacting to what it assumes will happen next.
If a part of you still expects:
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to be left
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to lose connection if you relax
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to have to prove your value
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to not be fully chosen
Then your system stays alert.
Your emotions spike.
And your behaviour follows that expectation automatically.
Not because you’re weak.
Not because you’re “too anxious.”
But because your inner identity is still organised around an old assumption.
And here’s the truth most people never tell you plainly...
Your relationships are not responding to your effort, your logic, or your intentions.
They are responding to your self-concept and assumptions.
The version of you that expects inconsistency experiences inconsistency.
The version of you that expects to be chosen experiences being chosen.
Not as coincidence.
But as a reflection.
The world & people are simply mirroring your internal state.
That’s why someone can pull away, stay inconsistent, or mirror your fear - without you “doing” anything wrong.
This is why insight alone hasn’t changed things.
Because you don’t create relationships from what you know.
You create them from what you assume is true about yourself in love... your self-concept.
Until that assumption shifts at a subconscious, embodied level...
Your nervous system keeps reacting,
Your behaviour keeps looping,
And the same dynamics keep replaying - even with different people.
This programme doesn’t just calm your nervous system.
And it doesn’t just help you “think more positively.”
It reprograms the subconscious beliefs and assumptions that your nervous system is organised around.
So instead of managing anxiety after it appears…
The trigger loses its charge.
Instead of forcing secure behaviour…
Security becomes natural.
Instead of trying to manifest from effort…
Your identity becomes the assumption everything responds to.
And when that internal shift happens:
• You stop chasing because you no longer expect loss
• You stop attaching to unavailable people because they no longer match your self-concept
• People show up differently - or fall away effortlessly
• Old dynamics dissolve without confrontation or control
• And yes - relationships can re-form, deepen, or return because the assumption behind them has changed
Not through force.
Not because someone else decides to change.
But because you are no longer the same person internally.
And there is no one outside of you creating your experiences.
When your subconscious no longer expects abandonment, inconsistency, or emotional unavailability…
Your body relaxes.
Your behaviour shifts automatically.
And your reality has to respond differently.
This is the work that puts you back in your power - quietly, cleanly, and permanently.
And once that shift happens, secure love is no longer something you try to maintain.
It’s simply what you experience.
Introducing Create Your
Secure Relationship™
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The 8 week method that transforms your relationships - past, present, and future - by transforming you.
Whether you want to:
✔ attract a secure, emotionally available partner,
✔ reconnect with someone you love without repeating the past, or
✔ finally shift the dynamic in your current relationship…
This is the programme that makes it happen - because it changes the one thing everything else in your love life depends on:
Your internal identity.
This isn’t more advice, more awareness, or more things to “remember” when you’re triggered.
This is deep subconscious and nervous-system rewiring that elevates who you are in love - so your relationships finally reflect it.
Inside Create Your Secure Relationship™, you’ll:
✨ rebuild yourself into the secure, grounded, chosen identity
✨ dissolve the patterns that push love away
✨ step into the version of you who attracts consistency, clarity, and commitment
✨ and create the relationship outcomes you’ve been trying to achieve for years
This is the programme gives you the three things no amount of insight can create on its own:
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Emotional stability (so triggers don’t run the show)
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Identity-level certainty (so you stop sabotaging what you want)
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Energetic alignment + subconscious belief rewiring (so your reality finally shifts to match you)
This is the missing piece between knowing better…and finally living the love you know you’re meant for.
Why This Programme Works When Everything Else Hasn't...
Most people try to change their relationships by changing how they act.
But this programme works because it changes the place your actions come from.
Inside Create Your Secure Relationship™....
we work at the three levels that actually create your patterns and outcomes:
1. Your nervous system
So you stop reacting from panic, fear, abandonment, or old wounds and start feeling calm and anchored even when emotions rise.
2. Your subconscious beliefs
So the stories driving your reactions (“I’m not chosen,” “love leaves,” “I need to earn it”) dissolve and are replaced with assumptions that attract secure behaviour.
3. Your identity in love
So you become the person who is chosen, respected, valued, and met - not through force, but naturally.
When these three layers shift, the outcomes shift:
> Someone comes back and shows up differently
> Someone new enters your life and chooses you clearly
> Your current relationship becomes safer, deeper, more connected
> Emotional rollercoasters stop
> Secure love becomes your baseline
Not because you begged for it.
Not because you tried harder.
But because you finally became the version of you who creates it.
That is why this programme works.
And that is why nothing else has.
The Method Behind the Transformation:
This is the only programme that brings together the exact tools required to change your relationships at the root:
✔ Attachment healing
✔ Nervous system regulation (EFT + somatic work)
✔ Subconscious belief reprogramming
✔ Self-concept + simple Law of Assumption principles
✔ Energetics of secure love
✔ Identity-level transformation
Most programmes teach information.
This one rewires the identity your relationships have been responding to your entire life.
When your internal identity shifts, everything around you shifts with iT...
> Relationships stabilise
> People show up consistently
> Communication becomes easier
> Triggers soften
> Old dynamics stop repeating
> New attraction becomes healthy instead of chaotic
> Someone returning shows up differently
> Your current partner becomes more connected and emotionally available
Because you’ve become the version of you who creates secure love naturally - without effort, anxiety, or strategy.
Why This Is Everything You’ve Been Missing...
This isn’t mindset work.
This isn’t journaling.
This isn’t “just be secure.”
This programme rewires:
> how you feel in your body
> how you think about love
> how you respond in connection
> how people show up for you
> and the relationships you create going forward
It takes the person who has done the inner work…
And turns them into the version of themselves who finally receives the secure, consistent, deeply connected love they’ve always known they were meant for.
This isn’t a course.
This is the identity shift that changes every relationship you have - past, present, and future.
I didn’t come to this work because dating felt a bit hard.
I came to it because love felt unsafe in my body.
I grew up with severe childhood trauma and emotional instability - the kind that wires your nervous system early to expect abandonment, inconsistency, and disappointment.
By the time I was an adult, that wiring showed up as anxious attachment, overgiving, hypervigilance, and a deep fear of not being chosen.
I could be confident, successful, self-aware - and still fall apart in relationships.
I wanted love so deeply that I was...
The one analysing every message, terrified of “getting it wrong.”
The one shrinking my needs.
The one holding everything together.
The one trying to stay “secure” while my body was bracing for loss.
I could see my patterns - but I couldn’t stop repeating them.
I did the therapy.
The journaling.
The attachment work.
I understood myself.
But my relationships didn’t change.
I kept attracting intensity, inconsistency, and almost-relationships… no matter how much “inner work” I did.
And that’s when I realised something that changed everything:
It wasn’t my behaviour creating my relationship outcomes.
It was my subconscious beliefs and assumptions about love, safety, and being chosen.
My nervous system wasn’t reacting to the present, it was responding to what it expected.
I was unconsciously assuming:
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love disappears
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connection has to be earned
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being chosen isn’t safe to trust
And my reality was faithfully reflecting that.
When I stopped trying to manage my reactions
and instead changed the assumptions my identity was built on, everything shifted.
I learned how to:
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rewire my self-concept at the subconscious level
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regulate my nervous system based on new expectations
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embody the identity of the woman who expects commitment, safety, and consistency
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hold that identity even when old triggers surfaced
I stopped needing to be chosen.
I wasn’t “hoping” for love anymore.
I was assuming it.
And reality responded.
I didn’t just heal anxious attachment
I changed the dynamics of all of my relationships.
Patterns that had followed me for years dissolved.
Connections reorganised.
People showed up differently.
When I anchored into the identity of the woman who already expects commitment, safety, and reciprocity - my reality reorganised quickly.
When I met my partner, the relationship unfolded in a way I had never experienced - grounded, consistent, intentional.
Finally, someone that was choosing me so effortlessly, and this time... my anxiety didn't sabotage it...
Not because I was “better at coping,” but because I had become the version of me who no longer expects love to disappear.
Today, I’m in the most emotionally available, steady, deeply connected relationship of my life and engaged to the person I once only imagined.
And this isn’t just about romance.
This work changed my entire life - all of my relationships became harmonious, my confidence, my calm, my friendships, my boundaries, my business, my ability to hold more in every area of life.
It’s the exact method I’ve used to help hundreds of clients:
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shift long-standing relationship patterns
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stabilise existing relationships
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reconnect past connections in healthier dynamics
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and attract secure, emotionally available partners
This programme exists because this work works.
And now it’s here to help you stop repeating the patterns you’re exhausted by and finally create the secure relationship you’ve always been capable of.
HOW I KNOW THIS METHOD WORKS...
YOUR PATH TO SECURE LOVE...
What You Receive Inside Create Your Secure Relationship™
This is not a collection of tools.
It’s a complete identity recalibration - designed to change your relationships at the source.
Everything inside this programme works together to shift who you are being in love so your external reality reorganises accordingly.
✔ The Identity-Shifting Method
A clear, step-by-step process that dismantles the chasing identity and rebuilds you as the secure, chosen version of yourself - the version your relationships respond to differently. This is where patterns dissolve rather than repeat.
✔ Release Work That Breaks Old Cycles
Targeted tools that calm your nervous system, discharge stored emotional responses, and stop the automatic reactions that sabotage connection before they play out. So you don’t have to “catch yourself” mid-spiral anymore.
✔ The 30-Day Chosen Identity Upgrade
A focused recalibration period that anchors you into certainty, self-trust, and emotional stability - until this identity becomes your baseline, not something you try to maintain. This is where the internal shift stabilises.
✔ EFT + Somatic Emotional Regulation
Guided tapping and body-based sequences that stabilise your emotions quickly and help you hold secure energy - even when old triggers surface. So your body no longer expects loss, abandonment, or inconsistency.
✔ Inner Child + Secure Self Healing
Practices that resolve the emotional imprints driving your attachment patterns so you stop recreating the same dynamic with different people. This is where the root finally clears.
✔ Subconscious Reprogramming + Visualisation
Precise exercises that rewrite your assumptions about love, safety, and being chosen so your external experience begins responding to your new identity.
✔ Three Relationship Pathways
This programme meets you exactly where you are.
Whether you want to:
• attract a new secure partner
• reconnect & recreate a past connection from a healthy baseline
• or transform your current relationship into safety, depth, and consistency
Each pathway includes targeted tools to shift your specific dynamic.
✔ Lifetime Access
Return to the tools whenever you need them - your secure identity keeps strengthening long after the 8 weeks and expands with you as your relationships grow.
Limited-Time Bonus: ONE Live Call
With Candice
Join now only and you’ll receive one exclusive live group call with Candice - a rare opportunity to receive direct support, guidance, and clarity as you move through the programme.
The call will deepen your transformation, answer your specific questions, and help you personalise the work to your relationship. Replays will be available for those that can't join live.
This bonus is only available for this launch.
This is for you if...
• You’ve done the inner work and you can feel that awareness alone isn’t enough anymore
• You sense that there’s more power available to you in love than you’ve been taught and you’re ready to access it
• You want secure love to be your baseline, not something you’re constantly managing or worrying about
• You’re open to seeing your patterns differently - with compassion, not criticism
• You’re ready to step out of survival mode and into a calmer, more grounded way of relating
• You value depth, clarity, and emotional maturity over intensity, drama, or quick fixes
• You’re ready to become the version of you who feels chosen, steady, and safe in love - from the inside out
If you’re honest, you can feel it.
There’s more to you than the version who overthinks, waits, or holds themself back in love.
You’ve felt moments of calm, steadiness, certainty - even if they didn’t last.
That’s not a good day.
That’s the version of you that’s been trying to come through.
The one who doesn’t shrink to be loved.
The one who feels chosen without needing proof.
The one who knows, deep down, that secure love is meant for them
You’re not here by coincidence.
You’re here because something in you is ready to stop repeating the same emotional loops.
And if there’s a quiet hesitation - a moment of “should I wait?” - hear this:
You wouldn’t be here if you weren’t ready.
If this feels like the moment something clicks...
The moment you stop waiting
And choose yourself
Then you already know what comes next.
Your investment
in you
You’ll receive instant access to the full 8-week method, with lifetime access to all materials so you can move through the work at your own pace and return whenever you need.
As an added bonus for those who join now, you’ll also receive:
One live group coaching call with Candice
A space to ask questions, integrate the work, and be supported as you embody the secure, chosen version of you.
This call is not part of the core programme and won’t always be included
FULL PRICE:
£888
(approx $1190)
EARLY INVESTMENT PRICE:
£444
(approx $590)
Payment plans available:
3 x £159pm | 6 x £85pm
My SECURE Method Results Speak For Themselves:
