CANDICE TAMARA
Transform your past, present & future relationships from the inside out within
8 weeks
Want to manifest an old SP back? this is for you.
Want to shift a current relationship dynamic? this is for you.
Want to attract a new secure relationship? this is for you.
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I KNOW YOU....
Your relationships never quite go how you want them to.
They start off exactly how you hoped they would.
There's chemistry. connection and potential.
You can see a future
And then somehow...
They pull away.
They're not ready.
They choose someone else.
They stop showing up the way they did in the beginning.
And once again, the relationship never quite becomes what you know it could have been.
And the frustrating part?
It's not like you don't know what's happening.
You can see the pattern playing out.
In them.
And in you.
You're self-aware.
You've done the inner work.
The journaling.
The therapy.
Watched the videos.
Listened to the podcasts.
Had the breakthroughs and the "aha" moments...
You know when you're overthinking every interaction.
You know when you're spiralling, replaying conversations.
You know when you're putting someone on a pedestal and letting them decide where you stand.
You know when you're checking your phone multiple times a day looking for reassurance.
You know when you're chasing, trying to control the outcome.
And yet...
You still find yourself doing it.
And underneath it all?
You feel anxious.
Rejected.
Not good enough.
Not chosen.
Completely consumed by them.
You forget how amazing you are.
Or maybe you've never truly believed it.
Which makes it so easy to put them on a pedestal.
And maybe you've discovered manifestation.
You've been affirming.
Visualising.
Looking for signs.
Watching video after video trying to find the missing piece.
But no matter how many affirmations you repeat...
No matter how many visualisations you do...
No matter how many signs you see...
Nothing is actually changing.
You still feel stuck.
You still feel consumed.
You still feel like you're waiting.
You want that SP back.
The one you can't stop thinking about.
The one you know there was a special connection with before everything went wrong.
But no amount of affirmations seems to be changing anything.
You're still asking...
"Where are they?"
As you check your phone for the thousandth time.
Or maybe you want to shift your current dynamic with an SP.
To finally reach the potential you know is there.
The relationship you keep imagining.
The commitment.
The security.
The version of them that chooses you.
But no matter how hard you try to force the situation, have the same conversation 500 times or find the perfect thing to say...nothing changes.
Or maybe you're ready to meet your person.
To experience the relationship that lasts this time.
Someone to do life with.
Someone who treats you better than you've ever experienced before.
But no matter how many dates you go on, you keep meeting the same person in a different body.
It's like you're watching the same movie over and over again...with the exact same ending.
IMAGINE THIS...
You're out for dinner with friends.
The conversation turns to relationships.
And for the first time in your life...
You're not the one analysing a text message.
You're not the one talking about someone pulling away.
You're not the one asking what you should say next.
You're not the one wondering where you stand.
Instead, you're sitting there in the relationship you always wanted.
Feeling secure.
Chosen.
Loved.
Knowing exactly where you stand.
And as the conversation unfolds, you realise something...
You've become the person you used to admire.
The person who isn't consumed by relationships.
The person who no longer settles for less than they deserve.
The person who naturally experiences the love, commitment and security they once spent so much time chasing.
The person who knows their worth.
The person who does the choosing.
Who has the relationship.
The marriage.
The family.
The life they used to dream about.
The person people look at and think...
"If they can have that, maybe I can too."
And the craziest part?
It feels completely normal to you now.
Because this isn't something you're trying to manifest anymore.
It's simply who you became.
WHY YOU'RE not here yet...
Here's the thing...
Manifestation is actually very simple.
You decide what you want.
You assume it's yours first, without seeing it.
You stay in the state of having it long enough
And because reality is a mirror, it reflects back.
Yay! You experience your manifestation.
The problem isn't understanding that.
The problem is what happens next.
Because for a moment, you can imagine having the relationship with your SP.
You can feel chosen.
Loved.
Secure.
Certain.
And then the old story comes back, doesn't it?
"What if they don't text?"
"But they said they don't want me"
"What if nothing is happening?"
"But they want someone else"
"What if I get hurt again?"
"But they are avoidant and don't want a relationship"
"This isn't working, try something else"
Suddenly you're checking your phone.
Looking for movement.
Searching for reassurance.
You can't hold the assumption long enough for it to reflect the new story...
Because your nervous system and identity are still attached to the old story.
The version of you who expects rejection.
Abandonment.
Inconsistency.
Not to be chosen.
And that's why awareness alone isn't enough.
It's why affirmations alone aren't enough.
Because nothing truly changes until YOU do.
Introducing Create Your
Secure Relationship™
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The 8 week method that transforms your relationships - past, present, and future - by transforming you.
This is not a "say this affirmation and your SP will be banging down your door" kind of programme.
Why?
Because even if your SP came banging down your door tomorrow...
You would still sabotage the relationship.
You would still recreate the same outcomes that created the distance in the first place.
The same relationship patterns you keep experiencing over and over again.
Ending in heartbreak.
Because YOU haven't truly changed.
And we want more for you than the same sh*t you keep experiencing.
You are the most powerful creator in your reality and it's time to start showing up like that so that you can have the relationships you actually want.
This programme is NOT a quick fix.
It's a complete transformation.
This programme changes YOU at the DEEPEST layers.
Working with your conscious mind, subconscious beliefs and nervous system to bring you into FULL alignment with the version of you that already has your desire NOW...
The one you know is possible but can't quite seem to get to.
First, we remove the default chasing-love patterns you have been repeating all your life...
The fixing.
The pleasing.
The performing.
The abandoning yourself.
The EXACT patterns that are manifesting the outcomes that have brought you here.
Then we level you up into the most chosen, secure version of you that you haven't embodied before...
One that is about to become your new normal.
No more putting others on the pedestal.
No more looking outside of yourself for validation.
No more needing someone else to choose you before you choose yourself.
You'll finally see yourself the way you've been wanting others to see you.
And guess what?
That's exactly what starts happening.
You start choosing you.
And they start choosing you.
Because people can only reflect the version of you that you're being.
So when you truly change, they truly change too.
That's why this programme isn't about changing them.
It's about becoming the version of you who naturally experiences the relationship you actually want.
Then we apply the work to the relationship outcome you desire...
Manifesting an EX SP back
It's time to let go of the old version of your SP so that you can experience the version you actually want.
The one that chooses you no matter what.
The one that prioritises you.
The one that is fully committed to you.
Because when you truly change, they truly change too.
Shifting a Current Relationship Dynamic
It's time to let go of the old stories you've been manifesting...
They're avoidant.
They want someone else.
They don't prioritise me.
They don't want commitment.
They're not ready.
They're pulling away.
Whatever story you've been experiencing, we shift it.
Whether you want a friend to become a lover...
A casual relationship to become committed...
More consistency...
More priority...
Or a proposal...
You'll learn how to stop recreating the old dynamic and start experiencing the new one instead.
Then watch them reflect it right in front of your eyes.
Attracting Someone New
It's time to call in the partner you truly desire.
Better than anything you have experienced before.
Effortlessly showing up for you.
Choosing you.
Prioritising you.
Because that's simply the standard you expect now.
And with clear teachings on manifestation woven throughout the entire programme, you'll finally step into your power fully.
No more relying on signs.
No more forcing the 3D.
No more wondering what they're thinking.
No more looking outside of yourself for answers.
You realise you are the one writing the script.
And it's time to step into the leading role of your own movie.
The reason I created this programme is because I was you.
I was far from the woman who felt secure in relationships.
I was ANXIOUS AF!
I didn't know my worth or see my value at all.
I never felt chosen, no matter how much I gave.
I was the person analysing every text.
The person terrified of someone pulling away.
The person trying to figure out what I could do, say or be so that someone would finally choose me.
When I was younger, I was married.
I thought someone had come along to save me. I was desperate for love, and the relationship was incredibly toxic.
It reflected my self-concept from a traumatic childhood where love wasn't safe for me.
It reflected what I believed love was supposed to be.
Then I found myself in a relationship that was full of avoidance, push-pull dynamics and anxiety.
I spent FOUR YEARS trying to convince someone just to live with me.
FOUR YEARS.
And it never happened.
Then came years of the same cycle with different people.
Connections that started off amazing.
Then...
People pulling away.
Ghosting.
Being "not ready".
Choosing someone else.
Or finding another reason why they couldn't choose me.
No matter who it was, the outcome was always the same.
Me, heartbroken, desperately holding onto what could have been and wanting them back.
Looking back now, I can see that every relationship was reflecting the same beliefs, fears and patterns back to me.
Then I discovered this work.
Like most of us, I came to it because I desperately wanted an SP back.
At first I was completely focused on them.
Needing them to come back & choose me.
I watched every manifestation video.
Affirmed for hours.
Did every YouTube technique that promised they'd be at my front door the next day.
But nothing changed.
Then I started to understand the Law of Assumption differently.
If everyone is a reflection of me...
Why was I so focused on them?
And even if they did come back, what then?
Looking at my dating history, it was obvious something needed to change. It was a sh*t show!
I didn't want another relationship that ended the same way.
I wanted more for myself.
So I stopped focusing on changing them and started changing me.
I rewired my self-concept.
I regulated my nervous system.
I changed the beliefs that had been creating the same relationship patterns over and over again.
And I learned how manifestation actually works.
Not as a technique you had to constantly do.
As an identity shift that would create real long term change.
Everything changed.
And yes... they came back.
But by that point something had shifted.
For the first time in my life, I wasn't desperately waiting for someone to choose me.
I was the one doing the choosing.
Trust me when I say this place is powerful.
Some people get to this place and choose their original SP, just a different version of them.
Others, like me, discover they want something different.
The point is that you're no longer making decisions from fear, lack and desperation.
For the first time, I got to choose what I actually wanted.
And what I wanted was the relationship I used to dream about.
The one I had visualized for years.
But never truly believed could be mine.
A family of my own.
A man to build a life with.
A man who adored me.
Chose me daily.
And committed to me freely.
So that's what I manifested.
I manifested my dream man.
My now husband bought the ring after just three months together with no convincing at all.
Proposed after seven months.
And now we're married and expecting our first baby together. A little girl.
I feel deeply chosen every day in my relationship.
But the biggest transformation wasn't the relationship.
It was becoming the version of me who naturally feels secure in herself.
No longer controlled by fear.
No longer terrified of losing love.
Able to finally receive the love she gives so freely to others.
A woman who expects to be chosen.
Supported.
Respected.
Cherished.
And that's exactly what I teach inside this programme.
HOW I KNOW THIS METHOD WORKS...
YOUR PATH TO SECURE LOVE...
What You Receive Inside Create Your Secure Relationship™
This isn't a programme you simply watch and then wonder how to apply.
It's not another course that gives you more information while your life stays exactly the same.
You already know what you should do differently in relationships.
You know you shouldn't chase.
You know you shouldn't put people on a pedestal.
You know you shouldn't spiral because they haven't text back for an hour.
You know you shouldn't keep checking the 3D wondering, "Where is it?"
You know you shouldn't spend your day looking for signs, movement or proof that it's working.
You know you shouldn't be obsessing over what they're thinking.
Yet you still find yourself doing it.
Why?
Because knowledge alone doesn't create lasting change.
That's why this programme works differently.
Instead of giving you more information, it gives you the tools to create real change.
Using a combination of subconscious reprogramming, nervous system regulation, manifestation principles and identity work, you'll change the beliefs, emotional responses and self-concept that have been creating the same relationship experiences over and over again.
So you don't just understand the work.
YOU actually change.
And when you truly change, your relationships change too.
The goal isn't more information.
The goal is transformation.
This programme is built around three stages of transformation:
✔ Break the Chasing Patterns at the Root
A complete process designed to help you stop recreating the fixing, pleasing, performing, overthinking and self-abandoning patterns that keep showing up in your relationships.
Not through willpower.
By changing the subconscious patterns driving them.
✔ Chosen Self-Concept Rewiring
Step-by-step exercises and tools that rebuild the way you see yourself so you naturally feel more chosen, secure, worthy and confident in love.
No more putting others on a pedestal.
No more looking outside of yourself for validation.
✔ Three Relationship Pathways
Apply the work directly to your situation:
• Manifesting an EX SP
• Shifting a Current Relationship Dynamic
• Attracting Someone New
So you always know exactly how to use the work for your desired outcome.
Throughout all three stages you'll use powerful tools designed to create lasting change at the subconscious and nervous system level:
✔ Subconscious Reprogramming Tools
Powerful exercises designed to change the beliefs, assumptions and stories that have been creating your relationship experiences on autopilot so that you can create new experiences you actually want.
✔ Secure Method EFT Tapping
Specific guided Secure Method EFT tapping sessions designed to remove the emotional charge from old wounds, neutralise triggers and rewire the subconscious patterns that have been creating the same relationship experiences over and over again.
So you stop reacting from fear, abandonment and self-doubt and start feeling safe receiving the relationship you actually want without sabotaging it.
You’ll also get….
✔ Manifestation Teachings That Actually Create Change
Clear lessons on how manifestation actually works using the Law of Assumption so you can stop relying on signs, forcing outcomes and obsessing over the 3D.
You'll learn how to consciously create what you want from a place of power instead.
✔ Group Coaching: Real Relationship Scenarios (Replay)
Watch me coach real relationship situations in real time and see exactly how this work is applied.
✔ Lifetime Access
Return to the programme whenever you need it and continue using the tools as your life and relationships evolve.
This Programme Is NOT For You If...
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You're looking for a quick fix, manifestation hack, or magic technique to get a text, a date, or an ex back.
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You want to blame other people for your relationship experiences without looking at your own patterns.
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You're unwilling to do the deeper subconscious, identity and nervous system work required for lasting change.
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You want information without implementation.
This Programme IS For You If...
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You're ready to take responsibility for the relationship patterns you've been experiencing and look honestly at them without blame.
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You're committed to doing the work, applying the tools and trusting the process over time.
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You understand that changing your relationships starts with changing you.
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You want real transformation, not temporary relief.
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You're ready to deepen your ability to consciously create from your identity, beliefs and self-concept rather than relying on techniques alone.
If you've read this far, there's probably a part of you that already knows you're ready for something different.
Something more.
But there may also be another voice.
The voice that says:
"Maybe now isn't the right time."
"I can figure this out on my own."
"What if it doesn't work for me"
And that's understandable.
Because choosing something different means stepping beyond what's familiar, even when what's familiar is painful.
Right now, you have two choices.
You can close this page and continue doing what you've always done, hoping that somehow things will change.
Or...
You can make the decision to invest in yourself, apply the tools, do the work and become the version of you who creates different results.
One path keeps you stuck in the same patterns.
The other changes everything.
Deep down, you already know which one you're here for.
Your investment
in you
You’ll receive instant access to the full 8-week method, with lifetime access to all materials so you can move through the work at your own pace and return whenever you need.
As an added bonus, you’ll also receive:
Group Coaching Session (Replay - worth £297)
A full coaching session where I work through real relationship situations, so you can see exactly how to apply this work and shift your own dynamic into something secure, chosen and consistent.
FULL PRICE:
£888
(approx $1190)
YOUR SPECIAL RATE:
£444
(approx $590)
Payment plans available:
3 x £159pm | 6 x £85pm
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