CANDICE TAMARA
You’re not new to this.
You’ve read the books.
Listened to the podcasts.
Tried therapy.
Learned about anxious and avoidant attachment.
Read every Instagram carousel on ghosting, breadcrumbs and nervous system regulation.
You’ve tried:
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Giving them space
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Scripted the perfect text
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Trying not to double-text
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Pretending you didn’t care when you actually did
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Repeating affirmations like “I’m the prize” while refreshing your phone
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TikTok “hacks” that promise to make them chase - like saying “I feel safe with you” because a stranger said it would trigger secure bonding
You’ve tried being chill.
Being high-value.
Being unavailable.
Being everything except yourself.
And still…
They pull away.
They ghost.
They breadcrumb.
They “don’t know what they want.”
And every time it happens, you spiral.
You tell yourself:
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“Maybe I was too much.”
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“They just couldn’t handle someone like me.”
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“They’re avoidant - they’re scared of their feelings.”
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“I should’ve waited longer to respond.”
You blame yourself, even when you know deep down - this isn’t who you truly are.
Because no matter how much awareness you have...
No matter how many “boundaries” you try to set or self-worth mantras you repeat...
You still feel like the one who cares more.
You still feel the panic in your chest when they go quiet.
You still don’t know how to stop being in chasing energy - even when you’re doing nothing to show it to them.
WHAT YOU ACTUALLY NEEDS TO STOP THEM
PULLING AWAY...
You don’t need another text strategy.
You don’t need a TikTok hack that promises to make them chase.
You don’t need to keep learning how to perform secure energy when you still feel anxious inside
What you need...
Is to finally shift the energy behind everything you say, do, and tolerate in love.
Because right now?
– Your energy is still bracing for abandonment before anything’s even gone wrong.
– You’re still subtly chasing, even when you’re saying nothing at all.
– You’re still trying to “get it right” so they won’t leave - instead of feeling safe in your truth.
You know you’re worthy of love - but your nervous system doesn’t fully believe it yet.
And that gap? That’s what keeps you stuck.
Here’s what no one tells you:
People don’t pull away because of what you say.
They pull away because of the energy you’re saying it from.
Because underneath your “cool, i'm fine” mask, your energy is still whispering:
– “Please don’t leave me.”
– “Please choose me.”
– “Please see my worth.”
And that chasing energy?
It creates the very distance you're trying to avoid.
That’s why this masterclass doesn’t teach you how to control them.
It teaches you how to shift your energy - the very thing that's been silently repelling love.
Because when you shift your energy...
– You stop chasing - even energetically.
– You stop spiralling when they go quiet.
– You stop triggering the push-pull cycle altogether.
This is how you stop them pulling away.
Not through silence.
Not through strategies.
Not through scripts.
But by becoming the version of you who no longer believes they will.
The version of you who feels safe, certain, and chosen - without needing to be chosen first.
YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED INSIDE...
– “Why do they act so into me one minute… and then pull away the next?”
– "Why do I panic the second someone starts to pull away?"
– “How do I stop attracting emotionally unavailable people over and over again?”
– “They said they ‘needed space’ - is that real or just an excuse?”
– “Can avoidants ever become secure - or is it just how they are?”
– “They ghosted me out of nowhere - how do I stop spiralling when that happens?”
– “They always come back… is that true, or am I just holding on to false hope?”
– “Can I change how this relationship feels without begging, fixing, or pretending to be okay?”
– “How do I stop them pulling away? without chasing & losing myself.
What You’ll Get Inside Stop Them Pulling Away
This isn’t just a masterclass.
It’s a complete energetic reset, designed to stop the push-pull cycle at its root and change how you show up in love forever.
You’ll get instant access to:
1. The Full Masterclass Training
A pre-recorded experience that walks you through:
- Why people pull away when things feel good
- How your anxious energy creates the very distance you're trying to avoid
- What actually changes the dynamic - without games, silence, or shrinking yourself
This is the mindset and energetic clarity you wish you had years ago.
2. Deep Secure Self Tapping™ Session
You’ll be guided through a powerful EFT tapping round that helps you:
- Release fear, panic, and “chasing” energy from your body
- Regulate the exact trigger that gets activated when someone pulls away
- Anchor into the version of you who feels grounded, safe, and fully chosen
This is a repeatable tool you can use daily for the next 21–30 days to rewire the core pattern and completely shift how you experience love.
PLUS> Mini Trigger Tapping Sequence
A short, on-the-spot tapping round to use when you feel:
– Rejected
– Anxious
– Ignored
– Or like they’re pulling away again...
So instead of spiralling, chasing or self-abandoning...you come back to self - fast.
You come back to self — fas
You’ll Walk Away Feeling...
– Clear on why they pulled away - and no longer stuck in shame, overthinking, or self-blame
– Calm in moments where you used to spiral
– Confident in your energy - no longer chasing or needing to prove yourself
– Reconnected with your power and finally in control of your emotional state
– Secure in your body, and in your mind
– Magnetic - because you’re no longer leaking energy or trying to be chosen
– Grounded in the belief: “I don’t need to chase love - I know how to hold it.”
This is about more than one moment, one person, or one situationship.
This is about who you become when you stop abandoning yourself in love.
They Stop Pulling Away From You When You Stop Pulling Away From You...
You’ve tried the dating rules.
You’ve tried waiting.
You’ve tried pretending not to care.
But nothing has changed - because the change isn’t out there.
It’s in here. In your body, your energy, your nervous system.
And the moment you shift that - Everything else shifts too.
This is how you stop them from
pulling away...
My Method Works &
The Results Speak For Themselves:
