Meet EMMA
How Emma went from anxiously people pleasing in relationships to confidently pleasing herself & creating healthy relationships with less anxiety
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After years of therapy, I found myself understanding my habits/

thoughts/behaviours and not really knowing what to do about them. I couldn't believe how many changes I made in just 3 months of working with Candice

What challenges were you experiencing before working with Candice?

Lacking confidence in myself. I was in a cycle of people-pleasing and not feeling as though I could show up as my true self out of fear. I noticed the same patterns occurring over and over again in relationships and knew I wasn't dealing with the root of the problem (me!). I noticed my relationship with myself was starting to filter through to all elements of my life and wasn't sure how to change it alone.

What were some of the results that you experienced whilst/after working with Candice?

Actually being able to confidently set boundaries and say what is/isn't working for me. Considering what feels good for me first instead of always jumping to what I think others will want me to say/do. Being much kinder to myself and honouring my needs. Feeling much more confident in myself and able to face challenges with far less fear. My relationship with dating improved so much. I am able to see when something doesn't serve me and feel far less attached to the outcome of walking away if it doesn't. I'm communicating my needs more confidently and trusting that the right person will honour that.

I would never have believed I could make some of these changes... and in such a short space of time too.

How did you find working with Candice?

I LOVED how actionable working with Candice has been. After years of therapy, I found myself understanding my habits/thoughts/behaviours and not really knowing what to do about them. I couldn't believe how many changes I made in just 3 months of working with Candice. I know I made a lot of progress in therapy, but it never really felt like it. Working with Candice built my confidence so much because I could actually see how I was transforming my day-to-day life. Such a huge difference from start to finish... and definitely all things I can take through with me in life.

What would you say to anyone thinking about working with Candice but may be on the fence?

I know it's hard to invest in and prioritise yourself... but it is literally a catalyst to changing every inch of your life. You will walk away knowing yourself better than ever before and confident in how to actually make a change.

I think that usually when I invest, the result tends to be money returned! It often feels a lot harder to just invest in yourself. I heard things like "you shouldn't spend that much on you" and "do you even need that?". But I just had this deeper sense that those niggling struggles were holding me back and I couldn't step forward without addressing them. I asked myself "what if you don't?" and the answer was that I stayed in the same place feeling stuck. As soon as I invested I felt empowered and knew that it was totally necessary.

- Emma
Meet FULVIA
How Fulvia went from self-abandonment to self-love & healthy relationships with less anxiety after narcissistic abuse
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The more I learnt from Candice, the more understanding I had of these behavioural patterns and this knowledge has been really invaluable for me. I have started to put myself and my needs first, even when this has felt uncomfortable at times however, I have seen a big change in the way that I feel towards myself.

What challenges were you experiencing before working with Candice?

Prior to working with Candice I was experiencing a lot of anxiety, fear and people pleasing behaviour all from growing up with a narcissistic family member. Not being able to say no to others has been a huge problem and suppressing my own needs every day to please others. I was not putting myself first in life and this led me to not know who I really am and to ultimately be unhappy within myself. This behaviour has made me become extremely indecisive, playing a huge factor in my life causing stress and anxiety in my everyday life. I was experiencing self-sabotaging behaviour and my self-worth was at its all-time low.

What were some of the results that you experienced whilst/after working with Candice?

The first thing I noticed since working with Candice is that I had become so aware of my thoughts and behaviour patterns.

The more I learnt from Candice, the more understanding I had of these behavioural patterns and this knowledge has been really invaluable for me.

I have started to put myself and my needs first, even when this has felt uncomfortable at times however, I have seen a big change in the way that I feel towards myself.

I have started to implement more self-care practices into my life and being more compassionate towards myself and my needs.

I have implemented journaling into my daily routine, reframing negative self-talk, started making decisions for myself, not people pleasing, releasing guilt and fear which were holding me back and so much more.

Candice's guidance helped me so much to understand my triggers and behavioural responses and to ultimately be able to reframe my thoughts and change the way I could respond to certain situations.

How did you find working with Candice?

I am really pleased I made the decision to work with Candice, even when initially I found the decision to work with Candice difficult because I had to put myself first which I’m not use to doing.

I really enjoyed working with Candice, she is super friendly and passionate about her work and helping others.

I felt that Candice really understood me because she has also experienced similar narcissistic behaviour, which made our sessions so much more relatable because Candice knows exactly how it feels and because of this she is able to help you work through these emotions and help to create a better mindset to be more empowering.

Candice would also challenge me on certain subjects but I felt that this was needed in order to grow and develop my mindset.

Candice is so knowledgeable and quick to understand how you may be feeling, which doesn’t make you feel alone during those moments in need.

What would you say to anyone thinking about working with Candice but may be on the fence?

Candice is a great coach and her relatability makes it easy to work with her.

She has given me a lot of knowledge, awareness and understanding which I now use everyday.

It was my first experience working with a mindset coach and I would recommend Candice to anyone wanting to better their mindset and work through any trauma holding them back, it really is invaluable!

Candice is very inspirational and so knowledgeable within her field and she has been a great help in my self development journey so far.

I feel that I have learnt so much from this programme and Candice has been a fantastic coach who I would love to work with again.

- Fulvia

The image is not accurate of Fulvia to protect my clients identity due to the sensitive nature of my work

Meet SABAH
How Sabah went from deep self-doubt to confident, clear & calm after Narcissistic abuse from a parent in just 6 weeks
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After working with Candice, I feel I have awareness & I feel more confident, more clear headed & calmer about this, in a better mood, seeing how little things can make an impact.

"Before working with Candice, I had a lot of issues dealing with a narcissistic parent that let me doubt a lot of my abilities.

 

After working with Candice, I feel I have awareness & I feel more confident, more clear headed & calmer about this, in a better mood, seeing how little things can make an impact. It has been an opening & great experience.

If you are considering working with Candice, I would say try it, there is nothing you would lose, only gain, & Candice, is a person who helps & guides you through experience & is patient & goes at your pace & she does establish a connection & makes it easy to talk to you & gives you the outsider view, & she practices what she preaches, If you ask me would I do it again, I would without hesitation"

 

- Sabah