My love...can you imagine it?
Picking healthy, loving & emotionally available partners that can meet your needs, make you feel safe & can give you that happy ever after that you have been dreaming of
Feeling so self-assured that you no longer have to ask your partner constantly to reassure you & tell you they love you 100x a day to soothe your anxiety
Able to focus on other areas of your life rather than watching your phone waiting for their text & overthinking every interaction wondering if they are losing interest & will leave you
Feeling safe within yourself as you have deep self-trust, able to be yourself, validate you, put your needs first & input boundaries without guilt
No longer feeling ‘needy’ as you fill up your own cup & make you happy so you can just enjoy what the other person has to give without expectations & pressure
Being able to communicate your needs… wait no, first, knowing what your needs are & then being able to communicate your needs without it turning into a conflict...no more walking on eggshells
Self-soothing your anxiety & working through your own triggers without pushing them away with self-sabotaging behaviour
Right now you ARE...
You are an overachiever, that has worked so hard to achieve so much but doesn’t feel like you're enough, often seen as the 'strong' one by others, your self-critical, put everyone first before you & you change yourself to please others
You attract partners that are emotionally unavailable & unable to meet your needs, perhaps things are good at first but then they pull away when you get close. You get very anxious when they pull away, chasing after them, asking them what you did & working harder for their attention
You over-attach very quickly to new partners, ignoring red flags as they make you feel good and giving them all your attention as you think they are the ONE, without them having to prove anything
You are unsure of what your needs are or how to make you happy so you are putting that pressure on the other person, perhaps they say you are too 'needy' or 'clingy'
You overthink every interaction looking for signs their losing interest or leaving you.You're attached to your phone waiting for them to message on high alert. You need constant reassurance or nitpick fights to get it.
You’re unable to process your emotions & triggers, perhaps having emotional convo’s or sending long texts about how you feel without clearly communicating what you need from them so they are just confused
You feel rejected when they are unavailable or online not messaging you, you expect them to spend all their time & focus on you. You have given up your interests to be with them & keep yourself very available for them, even cancelling plans with friends.
You put up with shitty behaviour that doesn’t make you feel good but you aren’t able to communicate clear boundaries & stick to them. You struggle to walk away even when you know you should, infact, begging them to stay
It's time to STOP...so that you can have & enjoy the healthy, loving relationships that you deserve without your anxiety sabotaging them.
I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL..
Hi, I'm Candice... a Trauma & Mindset Coach
I help you have a healthy, loving relationship with yourself & others.
I experienced a lot of trauma as a child & had a deeeepp abandonment wound
I was anxiously attached in my relationships, I attracted partners that couldn't meet my needs, but I begged, pleaded & fixed to try to make it work. Losing myself at the same time. I sabotaged relationships with needy behaviour, putting all my focus on them as I had no idea how to make me happy.
I had no idea what a boundary was so kept myself super available & that meant also putting up with shitty behaviour.
I was riddled with anxiety & anxious thoughts, overthinking every interaction, waiting by my phone for their text & needing constant reassurance.
This was all before I knew it was coming from my trauma & abandonment wound.
Once I knew I was anxiously attached, I was able to work on healing my abandonment wound, changing my patterns & reprogramming my mind & nervous system to receive healthy love without anxiety.
I built my self-trust & now I'm a secure attachment style, able to have healthy attachments that make me feel safe & good. And better yet, I make myself feel safe, I honour my needs first & I no longer accept anything that doesn't bring me value as I now know my worth.
And best of all, I get to guide my clients to finding safety in themselves so that they can have the healthy, loving relationships they deserve.
I get quick results for my clients because I am in your head with you as I have literally been there, I know exactly how you feel & I also know the path to get out.
This group container is the EXACT method I use with my 1:1 clients to take them from feeling ANXIOUS to SECURE in love.
DON'T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT..
Before Emma came to me, she was single & anxious in her relationships. She was attracting emotionally unavailable partners & working hard to impress them. She over-attached early to new partners & people pleased
Whilst working together, we worked on healing the root cause of her anxiety, building self-trust, learning to meet her needs & setting boundaries without guilt.
I encouraged her to date to practice not over-attaching which she did successfully, we worked on breaking her patterns of picking partners that couldn't meet her needs & then she met a healthy partner that was emotionally available.
She continued to keep meeting her needs throughout the relationship, keeping her identity & being herself. When she experienced anxiety/triggers, she was able to work through them without sabotaging the relationship & was also able to communicate her needs clearly without conflict because she had found safety in herself.
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GOOD FIT FOR YOU
This is for YOU,if....
You know you have an anxious attachment style /abandonment wound & are ready to work on healing it so that you can have the healthy, loving relationships you deserve
You are single & would like to find a partner but you attract partners that can't meet your needs & treat you how you deserve. You over-attach early, ignore red flags but put all your eggs in their basket, get very preoccupied with them easily without much effort on their part, only for them to pull away leaving you anxious, wondering what you did.
You are in a relationship but know you are sabotaging it with your anxiety, feeling needy & overthinking every interaction, putting pressure on your partner, suppressing your needs to please them & unable to communicate assertively without it turning into a conflict
Ready to have the safe, loving relationships that you deserve?
A LIVE 10 week group container to guide you from ANXIOUS to SECURE in Love
10 x LIVE weekly group coaching calls
10 x modules / weekly fieldwork
Group voxer voice note support between calls
Custom meditations, EFT & tools/techniques
BONUS: Intro 1:1 call with me to make sure you get the most from the container
Thought so...let me introduce to you....
Week 1 - Clarity
Gain clarity on where you are currently, where you really want to be without the fear & what is holding you back.
Week 2 - CONNECTION
Connect with yourself to get to know who you really are, without others opinions, who you are at your core, your values, passions, qualities etc
Week 3 - COMPASSION
Going deep into recognising what the root cause of your anxiety is so that we can begin the healing process
Week 4 - ACCEPTANCE
Letting go of the stories you have told yourself & healing your wounds with inner child healing. Learning how to reassure & validate yourself.
Week 5 - YOUR NEEDS
Identifying what your needs are & learning how to honour them, having a clear roadmap of action steps to do this
Week 6 - Your needs
Identify what you need from others. If single, working on breaking the pattern of over-attaching early & attracting unavailable partners. If in a relationship, learn what you need from your partner & how to ask for it
Week 7 - TRIGGERS
Identifying your triggers, learning how to work through them & soothe your anxiety with EFT tapping (a super simple & effective tool)
Week 8 - BOUNDARIES
Identifying what boundaries need to be put in, releasing any guilt & taking actionable steps to
Week 9 - Communication
Learning how to communicate your need’s & boundaries to others in a way that is clear & without conflict
Week 10 - CELEBRATE YOU
Reflecting on the past 10 weeks, answering any questions & ensuring you have the tools & steps to go forward on your journey.
MY LOVE, YOU HAVE 2 OPTIONS...
Continue going at it alone & try to break your patterns yourself over time with painful lessons, & in the meantime getting stuck in relationships that don't serve you or worse toxic, or sabotaging your relationships by pushing them away with your anxious behaviour
Try a tried & tested method that actually works to guide you to feeling more secure in yourself & your relationships in a short amount of time & giving you the tools to be able to manage your anxiety going forward so that you can have healthy & loving relationships & actually enjoy them!
Babe, how amazing would it feel to start the new year as a new you!
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How Emma went from anxiously people pleasing in relationships to confidently pleasing herself & creating healthy relationships with less anxiety
After years of therapy, I found myself understanding my habits/thoughts/behaviours and not really knowing what to do about them. I couldn't believe how many changes I made in just 3 months of working with Candice
How Fulvia went from self-abandonment to self-love & healthy relationships with less anxiety after Narcissistic abuse
The more I learnt from Candice, the more understanding I had of these behavioural patterns and this knowledge has been really invaluable for me. I have started to put myself and my needs first, even when this has felt uncomfortable at times however, I have seen a big change in the way that I feel towards myself.