You are high-achieving, independent and driven with your shit together but your relationship with yourself & others is off balance
 
You over-give in your relationships, feeling responsible for others & often feeling resentful for not getting the same in return. You focus on other people and their problems whilst abandoning your needs.

You are an over-thinker, consumed with anxious thoughts about what others are thinking & if they like you, setting boundaries & saying no is hard as you feel guilty for putting your needs first. 

You haven't got a strong sense of your identity, you rely on external validation of your self worth, always seeking reassurance from others, self critical and self doubting and often don't feel good enough or perfect. 

You struggle to make decisions or have strong opinions, often pleasing others & going with what they want. Managing your triggers & communicating effectively with others can be difficult.